2010-2011 Creative Writing Second Place Essay by Javier Guerrero

SECOND PLACE WINNER

Why Respect For Others Matters
By Javier Guerrero

       “Road rage…child abuse…elderly neglect…domestic violence…bullying…”  It is not uncommon to pick up a newspaper and find it filled with headlines dealing with these issues.  Add to that the television and advertising messages about instant gratification and personal advancement, and what we find is a society in need of reflection and repair.  A society that, in the words of William Shakespeare, must ask itself, “Is there no respect of place, persons, nor time in you?”

       We live in a society, especially here in Miami, of diverse cultures, languages, and traditions.  Our histories and our experiences, no matter how similar they may be, come to a point of disparity.  Our similarities bring us together, but it is our differences that we need to learn to deal with, and this is precisely where “respect” comes in.  Respect has been defined as “a feeling of value or regard for a person or for particular actions.”  If asked, most people would probably say that they are respectful to those around them.  However, cut them off on the highway or challenge their beliefs, and respect seems a daunting task.  Respect comes easily when we have something to gain, but we are called to a higher standard.  U. Thant explains, “Every human being, of whatever origin, of whatever station, deserves respect.  We must respect others even as we respect ourselves.”  Respect is often associated with love, but not limited to it.  It is not about whether you like or dislike those around you, or about having to agree with what they say.  Respect is about sometimes agreeing to disagree, and about showing consideration and regard for others feelings, opinions, and actions, regardless of how similar they are to your own.

       As we reflect on our society and the need for change, respect becomes of prime importance.  It is not enough to say that you respect someone; respect requires action.  Respect helps to foster and build relationships that insolence has destroyed.  It encourages open communication rather than the anger and contempt brought about by passing judgment and lack of regard.  In the end, respect is the vital element needed to help bring about peace in our world.

Javier Guerrero,
St. Timothy Parish School